Multi-Family Support Group for Parents

Specifically designed for parents of troubled teens and stuck young adults.

Parents know all too well the pain and suffering associated with having a child struggling with mental health, substance abuse or addiction problems. This twice-monthly, 90-minute group, now in its twelfth year, offers parents the opportunity to:

  • Find commonality and support from parent peers

  • Build a network of supportive allies

  • Develop a toolkit to improve communication and coping

  • Gain skills to deepen connections with all family members

  • Reduce distress and chaos in the family system

  • Create a safe and serene home environment

  • Set boundaries and limits in a loving, clear fashion with parent peer support to do so

The group space has been described as safe, welcoming and loving. Parents show each other it’s possible to move through extremely difficult situations with problematic offspring without compromising our values or serenity while simultaneously seeking deeper connection with all family members (including the ‘problem kids’). The power of peer support is overwhelming and cannot be duplicated elsewhere. If you’re within 50 miles of San Rafael, California and can join us two evenings a month, please consider doing so. Parents have travelled from Napa, San Jose, Sacramento, Dublin, Concord, Discovery Bay, Santa Rosa, and Vallejo to regularly attend.

Dr. Perlmutter facilitates this powerful, long-term group for up to ten families. Husbands and wives, single parents, divorced parents, step-parents and grand-parents are welcome. The group combines teaching/training in Family System disorder and recovery based on Dr P’s model of Stress-Induced Impaired Coping. Experiential, process and didactic methods are employed to add depth and permit a personal experience to enhance members’ understanding.  

Most significant has been the regular conversation among parent participants, offering the opportunity to:

  • Relate and learn from other mothers, fathers, grandparents and step-parents

  • Share current events and experiences as they are unfolding

  • Obtain peer and professional support to navigate various challenging situations with children

  • Compare notes about how the children of concern are moving through various developmental stages

  • Be seen and heard by others who “get” what its like to face similar challenges and events

Common situations facing group members’ offspring:

  • Worsening substance abuse or addiction in a child (the “kids” can be 12 to 50 years old)

  • Placement and transport of a child to residential or wilderness treatment

  • Discharge or transfer of a child from residential or wilderness treatment

  • Return home of a problematic child (discharge from treatment, college failure, other losses)

  • Problematic behavior at home (self-harm, suicide-related, promiscuity, isolation/withdrawal)

  • School or employment difficulties including expulsion or job loss

  • Young adult living at home doing nothing and appearing to be going nowhere

For more information or to register please phone 415-322-0939 or email us at FamRecovery@gmail.com